Like everyone else, children sometimes need to save face when they make a mistake or don’t behave well. Be sensitive to children’s needs in these situations. Say things like:
Even though children can be forced to behave well through fear of punishment or pain, these feelings do not encourage children to self-disciplined in the long term.
• Avoid going over and over mistakes and shortcomings
• Don’t make children feel silly
• Don’t tease children about their faults
• Tell children how pleased you are when they get it right
• And tell them often that you love them
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